Traveling on a airplane with children is not easy, in fact it can be a parents worst nightmare. I am a flight attendant and mother of three that has seen many disastrous flights with families. I have had my fair share as well. I think the biggest mistake that I and many others make is not being prepared before the flight. The key to sanity on an airplane is having enough food, toys, and entertainment.
Many flights these days do not have more than pretzels or peanuts on the plane. Depending on the length of the flight, you may have an option to purchase a meal. I must warn you though, the kids meals we offer are mostly junk. The last thing you want to do is fill your child up with sugar and then expect them to sit in their seat for five hours. Remembering to bring plenty of food is key, especially healthy food.
Bringing a number of different toys and books will also help. Crayons and coloring books are always a hit and kids love to make the pilots and flight attendants pictures. Reading them stories will help pass the time as well. What ever you do, do not just bring one toy. An assortment will help when they get bored. I had this family on my flight years ago that brought one toy for the whole flight. A small metal fire truck for their two year old. The toy kept him busy for maybe twenty minutes and then he threw it at another passenger. It hit the passenger in the head. Needless to say we had an angry passenger, a two year old that acted out the rest of the flight and embarrassed parents.
The last thing I recommend is to bring your own DVD player and movies. On the longer flights, most planes will show a movie or TV show but they are not always appropriate for children. The airline that I work for sometimes shows movies with violence or shows with sexual content. Little kids do not like them and parents complain about them. The best solution is to bring your own because the airlines do not cater to children but adults.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Advice to Americans when traveling to Europe.
While I was reading Rick Steves blog http://www.ricksteves.com/news/blog/blog10.htm called "Steves' pet peeves in Europe", I started thinking about some of his complaints. One of them was loud Americans oblivious to ruining the peaceful setting in a restaurant or public place in Europe. Do you think Americans deserve the bad reputation they have in Europe? We have been called many names but the three that come to mind are obnoxious, rude, and arrogant. I never understood why Americans were looked down upon until I experienced it on my first trip to Europe. There are three things you can do so you do not fall into the trap of the stereo typical ugly American tourist.
The first is to dress appropriately. In Europe people do not dress sloppy. I remember being in Paris and picking out many of the Americans by their clothing. This one man in particular stood out like a sore thumb. He had on a cowboy hat, an old t-shirt that said "I love Texas", awful looking plaid shorts, bright white tennis shoes and three quarter length white socks. I also saw many dressed perfect for Hawaii or another tropical beach location, but not for a European city. You need to remember if you would like to see some of the churches and museums, they have dress codes. No shorts or tank tops. You do not have to dress fancy, but think more along the lines of business casual. I know it gets hot in the summer, but if you want to blend in bring light clothes that are not too casual.
Second, do not assume everyone speaks english or wants to speak english. Try to learn at least a few important words like please and thank you in their language. I have seen Americans actually get upset if the Europeans did not understand them. We are visiting their country, we should at t be respectful if they can not speak english. I have found if you try to talk in their language, even if it is not good, they appreciate that and will help you. On the flip side to this, be careful that you do not talk about someone you perceive does not speak english in front of them. I have witnessed this happening and it is extremely embarrassing. You would think that is obvious but people do it.
The last thing to remember is your manners. To me this is simple but to some, they go to Europe and their manners go out the window. Americans can be loud, inflexible and complain too much. If you have decided to visit another country, you need to be open minded to the different customs and ways people live. Europe is not going to have the exact amenities of the United States, but that is part of the beauty of traveling there. Exploring the different countries people, food, and traditions, makes the trip memorable.
The first is to dress appropriately. In Europe people do not dress sloppy. I remember being in Paris and picking out many of the Americans by their clothing. This one man in particular stood out like a sore thumb. He had on a cowboy hat, an old t-shirt that said "I love Texas", awful looking plaid shorts, bright white tennis shoes and three quarter length white socks. I also saw many dressed perfect for Hawaii or another tropical beach location, but not for a European city. You need to remember if you would like to see some of the churches and museums, they have dress codes. No shorts or tank tops. You do not have to dress fancy, but think more along the lines of business casual. I know it gets hot in the summer, but if you want to blend in bring light clothes that are not too casual.
Second, do not assume everyone speaks english or wants to speak english. Try to learn at least a few important words like please and thank you in their language. I have seen Americans actually get upset if the Europeans did not understand them. We are visiting their country, we should at t be respectful if they can not speak english. I have found if you try to talk in their language, even if it is not good, they appreciate that and will help you. On the flip side to this, be careful that you do not talk about someone you perceive does not speak english in front of them. I have witnessed this happening and it is extremely embarrassing. You would think that is obvious but people do it.
The last thing to remember is your manners. To me this is simple but to some, they go to Europe and their manners go out the window. Americans can be loud, inflexible and complain too much. If you have decided to visit another country, you need to be open minded to the different customs and ways people live. Europe is not going to have the exact amenities of the United States, but that is part of the beauty of traveling there. Exploring the different countries people, food, and traditions, makes the trip memorable.
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Why do Californians vacation in Hawaii when Mexico is closer and cheaper?
If you live in California, Mexico is a great place to vacation. There is no need to go to Hawaii when you have Mexico so close. Don't get me wrong, Hawaii is beautiful but it can be expensive and the flight is longer. Did you know that Cabo San Lucas is only two and a half hours from SFO airport and Puerto Vallarta three and a half hours. It will take you five hours to fly to Hawaii.
I think you will find very similar things to do in Mexico compared with Hawaii, especially the water activities. Mexico offers good snorkeling, whale watching, surfing, and fishing. Having just returned from a trip to Puerto Vallarta, I can tell you the whale watching was fabulous. We were able to rent a small boat and guide for $12.00 a person. The humpbacks are currently there and they preformed quite a show for us. The best part though was the price, you can not beat that for what we saw. Surfing is also excellent and for $15.00 a day you can find areas for beginners to advanced. Mexico is famous for fishing. It will not be cheap but for around $100.00, you will be able to rent a guide and boat for at least 4 people, for half day. However, I think it is still more inexpensive than fishing in Hawaii. Snorkeling is the one area I feel Hawaii is superior to but, Mexico is still decent and will be reasonable.
I have found flying to Mexico to be much cheaper than Hawaii and there are a variety of airlines that will take you there. When it comes to hotels, you will have every choice imaginable. From the budget to the luxury, there is a hotel that will fit your need. I like the all inclusive hotels if you have a family. It includes everything from your drinks and meals to many activities and tips. You can find a nice one in the off season for around $70.00 a day. It is a great deal with children.
I have been to Mexico and Hawaii many times and truly believe Mexico is just as good. If you are worried about getting sick from the food or water, don't be. They have improved tremendously in that area and it has been years since me or my family members got sick. Give Mexico a shot the next time your thinking about Hawaii, you will enjoy the savings and the country.
I think you will find very similar things to do in Mexico compared with Hawaii, especially the water activities. Mexico offers good snorkeling, whale watching, surfing, and fishing. Having just returned from a trip to Puerto Vallarta, I can tell you the whale watching was fabulous. We were able to rent a small boat and guide for $12.00 a person. The humpbacks are currently there and they preformed quite a show for us. The best part though was the price, you can not beat that for what we saw. Surfing is also excellent and for $15.00 a day you can find areas for beginners to advanced. Mexico is famous for fishing. It will not be cheap but for around $100.00, you will be able to rent a guide and boat for at least 4 people, for half day. However, I think it is still more inexpensive than fishing in Hawaii. Snorkeling is the one area I feel Hawaii is superior to but, Mexico is still decent and will be reasonable.
I have found flying to Mexico to be much cheaper than Hawaii and there are a variety of airlines that will take you there. When it comes to hotels, you will have every choice imaginable. From the budget to the luxury, there is a hotel that will fit your need. I like the all inclusive hotels if you have a family. It includes everything from your drinks and meals to many activities and tips. You can find a nice one in the off season for around $70.00 a day. It is a great deal with children.
I have been to Mexico and Hawaii many times and truly believe Mexico is just as good. If you are worried about getting sick from the food or water, don't be. They have improved tremendously in that area and it has been years since me or my family members got sick. Give Mexico a shot the next time your thinking about Hawaii, you will enjoy the savings and the country.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
How to pack light for a trip.
I have packed a suitcase more times than I would like to count. You learn quickly how to pack efficiently when your a flight attendant. The last thing I want is to lug around extra weight when I am working a five day trip. I think I have finally mastered packing and it is one of the most valuable tools I have learned from my job. I will be sharing with you how I pack for vacation.
How much clothing should you bring on a trip? How ever many days you will be gone, cut them in half and bring for that many days. For example, if you will be on vacation for two weeks, bring enough for one week. Bring clothes that you can mix and match with and you will not have to wear the same outfit twice. Try to stay away from bringing too many shoes. This is one area people tend to over pack in, especially women. For most trips, two pairs are usually sufficient. One for walking and one for dinners and night life. If you wear one of the pairs, you will only have to pack one which will save you room in your bag.
Packing light for a summer vacation is always easier than a winter trip. Summer is a great time to go somewhere because you can get away with a light suitcase. Shorts and t-shirts hardly take up any room in your bag. For women throw in a couple of sundresses with your day clothes and your complete for night and day wear. Sundresses fold nicely and will not fill your suitcase up. Men only need a couple of nice shirts for dinner and maybe one pair of light pants in addition to the shorts and t-shirts. One sweater or light jacket is plenty for the summer. Bathing suits seems to be another item people over pack. Probably because they are small and people do not think they will take up much room. However, you will not need more than two so why not save the room.
Winter trips call for you to be more savvy when packing. Clothes for cold weather are bulky, but if you get creative you can pack light. There is a couple of things you can do to help. One, wear your heavy coat instead of packing it. You will notice more room immediately if you take that out of your bag. Two leave your heavy sweaters at home and bring your thin long sleeve thermal style shirts. Layer your clothing and you will be just as warm as you would be in your sweaters.
Do you really need all the extras? Leave your blow dryers, irons, and beach/pool towels at home. Most hotels have these items and they are not necessary. Ladies, be careful with bringing too many purses and jewelry. I have seen women fill large areas in their suitcases with these items. One purse is plenty and a couple of pieces of jewelry that are versatile will do. Gentlemen, electronics are heavy, only bring what you really need. Also, portable dvd players, laptop computers, and hand held video games all have different chargers that will take up a lot of room.
Remember, the more room you save in your suit case, the more you can shop. Always error on the light side for packing because you can wash your clothes on vacation if necessary. I promise you will be happier when traveling if you have less to carry.
How much clothing should you bring on a trip? How ever many days you will be gone, cut them in half and bring for that many days. For example, if you will be on vacation for two weeks, bring enough for one week. Bring clothes that you can mix and match with and you will not have to wear the same outfit twice. Try to stay away from bringing too many shoes. This is one area people tend to over pack in, especially women. For most trips, two pairs are usually sufficient. One for walking and one for dinners and night life. If you wear one of the pairs, you will only have to pack one which will save you room in your bag.
Packing light for a summer vacation is always easier than a winter trip. Summer is a great time to go somewhere because you can get away with a light suitcase. Shorts and t-shirts hardly take up any room in your bag. For women throw in a couple of sundresses with your day clothes and your complete for night and day wear. Sundresses fold nicely and will not fill your suitcase up. Men only need a couple of nice shirts for dinner and maybe one pair of light pants in addition to the shorts and t-shirts. One sweater or light jacket is plenty for the summer. Bathing suits seems to be another item people over pack. Probably because they are small and people do not think they will take up much room. However, you will not need more than two so why not save the room.
Winter trips call for you to be more savvy when packing. Clothes for cold weather are bulky, but if you get creative you can pack light. There is a couple of things you can do to help. One, wear your heavy coat instead of packing it. You will notice more room immediately if you take that out of your bag. Two leave your heavy sweaters at home and bring your thin long sleeve thermal style shirts. Layer your clothing and you will be just as warm as you would be in your sweaters.
Do you really need all the extras? Leave your blow dryers, irons, and beach/pool towels at home. Most hotels have these items and they are not necessary. Ladies, be careful with bringing too many purses and jewelry. I have seen women fill large areas in their suitcases with these items. One purse is plenty and a couple of pieces of jewelry that are versatile will do. Gentlemen, electronics are heavy, only bring what you really need. Also, portable dvd players, laptop computers, and hand held video games all have different chargers that will take up a lot of room.
Remember, the more room you save in your suit case, the more you can shop. Always error on the light side for packing because you can wash your clothes on vacation if necessary. I promise you will be happier when traveling if you have less to carry.
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Disneyland on a Budget
Are you going to Disneyland soon? Taking your family to Disneyland is never cheap, but there are things you can do to save money. I have brought my children there numerous times and love to find new deals that will conserve my money. I figure the less I spend, the more trips I will be able to take. I want to share just a few of the tips I have learned along the way that may help.
One of your largest expenses will be your tickets. Never buy them at the entrance to Disneyland where they are full price. There are many places to buy discounted tickets before you go, from online to AAA or Costco. You will save the most by buying a five day hopper pass to Disneyland and California Adventure. A family of four will cost $936 for five days. That averages to $46.80 per day per person. That sounds great when you compare it to the $91 per day cost that you will be charged at the gate. There is only one problem, most families do not want to go there for five days. I found a way to have your cake and eat it too, share with another family on Craigslist. You can go to Craigslist.com and post a listing to share your five day tickets with someone. For example, if you only want to use two of the five day tickets, you will post the other three days for sale. It is a win win situation for both families. Buying separately two or three day passes will not save close to the amount a five day will. In addition, you will see postings from other families doing the same thing.
Is this safe? I can only tell you that I tried this six months ago and it worked beautifully for me, with a savings of over $100. I found a family on craigslist that lived close by me and was also planning a trip to Disneyland. They were planning to go the week after me and needed three day passes. After coming to my house and seeing the passes they gave me a check which was post dated to the date they would pick them up from me. This way we both felt confident that the sale would take place. Because the five day passes are on one ticket, you can not sell them ahead of time. You will want to come up with a plan in which you know that the family you are sharing them with, will buy them when you get back and the family needs to feel comfortable that they will get the tickets. For me, It worked out very well because I knew the family would buy the remaining passes due to the post dated check I had of theirs.
You can save even more money by going to Disneyland in the off season. My favorite months to go are in April (avoid spring break) and October. The weather is wonderful, warm and pleasant but not too hot. What I like the most though, is how short the lines are. The longer you spend in lines, the more time you will spend at the park which will cost you more money. The food and drinks are outrageously priced there. Time is money, especially at Disneyland. I stayed at the Howard Johnson's, across the street from the park. With my airline discount, it was only $60 a night. The hotel is nothing fancy but has pools, a game room, a small grocery store and a cheap restaurant attached to its parking lot. It is definitely geared for families and very reasonable in the off season. Because the lines were short, we went on a good chunk of rides on our list by lunch time. It saved us time to go back to the hotel for swimming, lunch, rest and an early dinner. In the evening we finished our list of rides and enjoyed the fabulous night shows which I highly recommend.
Disneyland is a great family vacation your kids will enjoy and with careful planning, you do not have to break the bank. Take my advice, save money by sharing your tickets and going in the off season.
One of your largest expenses will be your tickets. Never buy them at the entrance to Disneyland where they are full price. There are many places to buy discounted tickets before you go, from online to AAA or Costco. You will save the most by buying a five day hopper pass to Disneyland and California Adventure. A family of four will cost $936 for five days. That averages to $46.80 per day per person. That sounds great when you compare it to the $91 per day cost that you will be charged at the gate. There is only one problem, most families do not want to go there for five days. I found a way to have your cake and eat it too, share with another family on Craigslist. You can go to Craigslist.com and post a listing to share your five day tickets with someone. For example, if you only want to use two of the five day tickets, you will post the other three days for sale. It is a win win situation for both families. Buying separately two or three day passes will not save close to the amount a five day will. In addition, you will see postings from other families doing the same thing.
Is this safe? I can only tell you that I tried this six months ago and it worked beautifully for me, with a savings of over $100. I found a family on craigslist that lived close by me and was also planning a trip to Disneyland. They were planning to go the week after me and needed three day passes. After coming to my house and seeing the passes they gave me a check which was post dated to the date they would pick them up from me. This way we both felt confident that the sale would take place. Because the five day passes are on one ticket, you can not sell them ahead of time. You will want to come up with a plan in which you know that the family you are sharing them with, will buy them when you get back and the family needs to feel comfortable that they will get the tickets. For me, It worked out very well because I knew the family would buy the remaining passes due to the post dated check I had of theirs.
You can save even more money by going to Disneyland in the off season. My favorite months to go are in April (avoid spring break) and October. The weather is wonderful, warm and pleasant but not too hot. What I like the most though, is how short the lines are. The longer you spend in lines, the more time you will spend at the park which will cost you more money. The food and drinks are outrageously priced there. Time is money, especially at Disneyland. I stayed at the Howard Johnson's, across the street from the park. With my airline discount, it was only $60 a night. The hotel is nothing fancy but has pools, a game room, a small grocery store and a cheap restaurant attached to its parking lot. It is definitely geared for families and very reasonable in the off season. Because the lines were short, we went on a good chunk of rides on our list by lunch time. It saved us time to go back to the hotel for swimming, lunch, rest and an early dinner. In the evening we finished our list of rides and enjoyed the fabulous night shows which I highly recommend.
Disneyland is a great family vacation your kids will enjoy and with careful planning, you do not have to break the bank. Take my advice, save money by sharing your tickets and going in the off season.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Introducing the blog
I am a 36 year old flight attendant that works for a major U.S. airline. I have flown for the airline for 17 years and truly love to travel.
I started this blog to talk about travel. I want to share my tips, experiences, and stories while traveling. Through the years, I have learned how to save quite a bit of money while away from home. If you also have advice on traveling inexpensive or recommendations for a great vacation, it would be great to hear from you.
You may be surprised to know that many flight attendants do not travel outside of work; they are tired of people, planes and hotels. I, however took this job to see the world and take advantage of my plane passes when possible. On every trip I learn something new. My hope is that people will find useful information from this blog and possibly prevent some of you from making my past mistakes while traveling.
I started this blog to talk about travel. I want to share my tips, experiences, and stories while traveling. Through the years, I have learned how to save quite a bit of money while away from home. If you also have advice on traveling inexpensive or recommendations for a great vacation, it would be great to hear from you.
You may be surprised to know that many flight attendants do not travel outside of work; they are tired of people, planes and hotels. I, however took this job to see the world and take advantage of my plane passes when possible. On every trip I learn something new. My hope is that people will find useful information from this blog and possibly prevent some of you from making my past mistakes while traveling.
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